perpetual mismatch

when nobody around you ever seems to want to do the same things you want to do, you end up eventually feeling like a freak.

People say, well it's up to you to find people who match you.

Right. Like I have control over the whole fucking universe.

Been there, tried that, over and over and over again.

You know what? It's bullshit. It doesn't work.

The people who give that advice don't want to recognize that they've been lucky - fundamental misattribution error at work again. People taking credit for things they have no control over, and thus, conversely, blaming people who didn't have such good luck for their own misfortune.

Fucked up, is what it is.