fragments

this is another instance of someone trying to take.

Men TAKE

Women GIVE

At least that’s how men WANT it to be.

It takes constant vigilance on the part of a woman to

or does it?

minimal effort. See HOW LITTLE EFFORT you can expend to keep them off you.

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twitching eye as guide to what i’m seeing/not seeing :-)

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CAN vs. SHOULD = COGNITIVE DISSONANCE

Narrow your focus to what you CAN do at any given moment – it’s all about RESOURCES

Shoulds meet cans and clash

Play both sides against the middle, fearlessly and shamelessly

the SHOULDS are a POWER PLAY by those who HAVE MORE RESOURCES THAN YOU to KEEP YOU DOWN and

so that they can CONTINUE TO SIPHON OFF YOUR EARNINGS.

Make it NOT WORTH THEIR WHILE TO HASSLE YOU.

Make it VERY COSTLY for them to hassle you – time , money, energy, whatever. peace of mind.

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men whose bodies know the whole story, reality the truth; while their minds operate as if from a jar on a shelf 7 miles away, completely separate, disconnected.

belt cinch, valve. Keeps unwanted emotions from consciousness.

sexual release as substitute for emotional understanding can be a HABIT, hard to break even once an alternative becomes available. The unknown, even the GOOD unknown, is frightening?