to step outside
your paradigm
(yes, I just made that up my very own self. If someone else has said it, then bully for them! Otherwise, I hereby claim it as MINE.)
Wednesday, September 15, 2010
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Hi :-)
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I quote others frequently and freely, and do my best to give full attribution. All the rest of the writing here is mine.
I hereby respectfully request: If you like something I've written enough to copy it for your own use, please give full attribution, either by providing a link back to the original writing on this site, or by citing Orts & Leavings as your source.
Thanks!
About Me
- grasshopper
- Grasshopper is, at the moment, still 'under construction' :-) She's trying to learn, and trying to keep a 'beginner's mind' while doing so (hence the moniker). She is also stubborn, willful, headstrong and ornery. She does things her own way. (She's also trying to give up 'being nice'.)
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- more motorcycle boy
- the root of it?
- expectations
- I must shed my family
- oldest child usurped by middle child?
- cog(nitive) function?
- zombie feminism
- more nothingness
- do nothing
- dying of emotional hunger
- when 'comfort food' no longer provides comfort
- exchange
- what is a friend?
- hunger
- language, framing, stories, and tellings thereof
- good excerpt - thoughts on emotional abuse and neg...
- language link + large excerpt
- human brain function poorly integrated?
- people don’t think. And: Gut brain
- power, again
- we tell ourselves stories
- who the fuck CARES if I don't live up to what's in...
- power and dominance? or, something else?
- abandonment; strength; children 'testing' parents
- I’ve fallen in love :-)
- more fragments: reach for what YOU want
- fragments
- catching up
- men are taught to
- willful stupidity
- being born unwanted
- I'll give you a pair o' dimes
- philosophizing
- Fear of 'losing data' during repeated over-writes
- accentuate the positive
- I have to nurture my SELF
- keys
- I'm drawn to something
- one is the loneliest number
- feed your demons
- a perfect day :-)
- looking for clues (at the scene of the crime)
- take me as I AM
- why are men (boys?) so afraid of women's anger?
- SQUASH the sonsofbastards
- maybe it's all about power games
- Feeling idiotic
- what's growing in your emotional garden?
- do the first thing you think of
- Relishing giving as good as you get :-)
- boundaries, filters
- taking the other road
- image management
- when people dump (?) their anger on you
- the many faces of anger
- eggshells - or assholes?
- parental double standards for siblings
- bladder, large intestine and ELIMINATION of old stuff
- small intestine and absorbing stuff that FEEDS you...
- people say I think too much
- emotionally absent mother
- permission to be angry
- silent treatment
- parental disengagement, mis-attunement
- needing little direction
- gift economy
- still sorting
- stories :-). And: chameleon?
- Posit re: introverts?
- finding the middle
- containment device - and some yoga/heart meridian ...
- we do not create our relationships -
- the worst thing
- I disagree with Maslow.
- Everything you *think* you know is wrong
- *placeholder*: introverts are created, not born
- Who is this 'norm' of whom you speak, and why
- stop BLAMING me for BEING HURT!
- childhood emotional trauma and later life resilien...
- hungry
- it's decided to maim me first
- Lies, damn lies
- titration & capacity
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2 comments:
I like it.
This is my favorite one I wrote.
The reason I am not doing as you wish is very likely not be cause I can not.
Yes, that's a good one.
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