That's the 'hook', for *me* - this business of 'taking care of' men who've had - what - their egos? bruised or crushed by their encounters with women.

Starting with my father, I've felt *obligated* to 'take care of them', 'make it up' to them, as if it was *my* fault that they experienced what they did.

My god! The hours, days, years of life that have -

Well.

No more.

Stopping now.

Thank you very much and good day.